Life is not much complicated. Take it with a smile…

Dear All,

I have come across a beautiful article and thought it is good to share with you.

The life of human beings is full of happiness but sometimes it also lead to some troublesome situation. Life is not so complicate but the people by their activities make it so. There are so many puzzles about the life have been seen in various articles, magazine, journals   and books. They give solution also. There is a huge difference between making a life and making a living.

Everyone is busy in making their life in the world. After working whole day, there are so many things have been experienced that gives us problems and irritation. We faced many hurdles in our life. Those who are heavy set with material desire will have a lot of trouble when their things are taken away from them or lost. But the truth is life still is easy. It always will be.

The only difference is we are older, and the older we get, the more we complicate things for ourselves.  When we were young we saw the world through simple, hopeful eyes.  We knew what we wanted and we had no biases. We liked people who smiled.  We avoided people who frowned.  We ate when we were hungry, drank when we were thirsty, and slept when we were tired. As we grew older our minds became gradually destructed by negative influences.  When a new hindrance or growing pain arose, we stumbled and a fell down.  This happened several times.  Eventually we decided we did not want to fall again, but rather than solving the problem, we avoided it all together. As a result, we ate comfort food and drank alcohol to numb our wounds and to reduce our problems. We worked late nights on purpose to avoid unresolved conflicts at home.  We started complaining, playing mind games, and subtly deceiving others and ourselves to get ahead.  And when it did not work out, we lived above our means, bought things we did not need, and ate and drank some more just to make ourselves feel better again. Over the course of time, we made our lives more and more difficult, and we started losing touch with who we really are and what we really need.

So let’s get back to the basics, shall we?  Let’s make things simple again.  It’s easy.

Here are ten ways to do just that:

1. Think only about the present –

Past is unchangeable but it guides us surly. So always try to learn from past and never repeat mistakes that you have done in past.  The future is the result of today’s action. So learn from the past to do better in present so that you can success in future.

2. Attitude should be positive-

Thinking about negative things is always harmful. So start thinking positively so that you can enjoy your life because positive mind-set is essential for continue happiness and success.

3. Take the life easily- life is not strictly business’ it can be mixed with pleasure. Always try to do whatever you want to do. First decide what your perfect life consist of and begin to put the step in motion to reach that place. The most satisfying thing in the world is overcoming a challenge and reaching a goal.

4. Be honest at all time-

Lies lead to nothing but trouble. So always speak and work honestly because honesty is the best policy in the world.

5. Develop the ability to forgive-

You make mistake all of the time so why not have mercy when others do. In our life we experienced bad and good things both. So remembering those bad incidents lead us to frustration and anger and that is very dangerous to our health and mind. So always try to forgive those bad incidents because forgiveness is the virtue of saints.

6. Inculcate the habit of reading-

Reading is the basis of improving the personality and knowledge. Whenever you get frustration and felt lonely, take a good book and start reading. It will make you feel free and calm. Books are the greatest and trust worthy friend of a man. They never deceive you. So make it habit and you will see the result soon.

7. Meditation and Prayers-

The ability to quiet your mind and relax your body is an art and skill that everyone should develop. The beauty of silence is the greatest thing in the world that was felt by our great saints and personalities. So meditate every day for at least twenty minutes to feel the world beyond the reality. It will really wonderful and magnificent.

8. Always show your gratitude-

Gratitude seems very little thing but when it comes in the sense of behaviour then it became a very great and valuable thing. So always show your gratitude towards the persons who really helped you.

9. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best-

Our desire makes us crazy but sometimes when we lost something then it was very bad for us. So always remember the thing that whenever you will go to face any challenge in your life, first of all your preparation should be good and effective and have best hope in your mind after then everything is okay.

10. Love yourself and others-

If you truly want to be a master in your life, let love be in your every action. Love yourself, your family, Friends and enemies alike. Love is the only rival against the massive presence of hate, so follow this thing and immediately you will see yourself amongst the leaders.

Definitely you can make life simple not very complicated. But you have to decide now what you want....

Stand apart!!!